I`m going to try and make the end results as cheap as possible so i could build controllers for our entire office (8 desks right now) for that reason I have decided to use a standalone ESP8266 as both the WIFI transceiver and as a controller with minimum hardware
I recently implemented a sit/stand desk in my house and I've been looking into doing something that you seem to have already done. The desk I picked up is a quad-leg design using dual motor controls and a memory control set as well. It took me forever to figure out what controllers it was using, but once I did I found your project immediately.
My intention was a bit more extensive than just a wireless switch. I would like to create a Home Assistant component that can push state changes, automate up/down to specific heights, and also display current height. Lastly, like you, I want to do this as a stock implementation without modifying the current hardware. If my understanding of your project is correct, you made your unit design to be inline with the control switch. Since my desk makes use of a linked dual controller design, I was thinking to connect the wireless module to the control port on the secondary motor controller, but an inline solution would work just as well.
Anyway, did you have success getting this project to work? Do you mind if I offer up my setup as a testbed?